Birthday Gifts for the Cancer in Your Life

By: Dakota D. Duran

Cancers are romantic, empathetic, and loyal individuals. They enjoy spending their time in the comfort of their own home, cuddled on the couch with a nice cup of tea. They find pleasure in wholesome activities, such as dinner parties with a few friends and family or relaxing alone at the beach. 

When it comes to their birthday, they often enjoy celebrating it the same way: small, comfortable, and calm. I typically enjoy spending my birthday with my family on vacation. I am not one to party or have an elaborate celebration. I like to be surrounded by those I love and good food. 

Just because Cancerians prefer a chill birthday doesn’t mean they choose not to be thought of at all. They love knowing that they were thought of on their special day, especially in the form of a sentimental gift. If “being known” was a love language, it would probably be a Cancerian’s top one, next to quality time and acts of service of course. It warms their heart knowing that you saw or made something and thought of them. However, sometimes people need some help when it comes to gifts, and that’s okay. If you have a crab in your life, with their birthday being between June 21-July 22, here is a list of gifts for them: 

Candles 

Because Cancers enjoy spending the majority of their time in their home, they love to have a space that smells cozy and snug. The Gisou Honey Scented Candle fulfills this job perfectly, and the honeycomb shape and pink color will fit any room perfectly. Vanilla scents are also a go-to, and the Diptyque Vanille Candle will fill any space with warm vibes that a Cancer will love. Glossier also has a lovely selection, and the Glossier You Candle is a perfect musk scent that is perfect for a bubble bath or for skincare therapy, both activities that a Cancer loves. 

Blankets or Bedding 

A Cancer’s favorite spot is their bed, meaning they have to have the most soft and gentle linens. The Djerf Avenue Bedding selection is simply to die for and gives off the most Cancer energy. My favorite is the Summer Berries or Summer Rainbow design. Another perfect option is a Barefoot Dreams blanket, which will be perfect for a night-in or a midday nap. 

Matcha Making Set

Cancers love home activities, especially ones that involve a hot cup of tea. Matcha is the perfect comfort tea, and there is nothing a Cancer would love more than making it from scratch. This Matcha Making Set on Amazon is ideal for the homebody Cancer, who will most likely have their morning ritual with this set included.  

Emi Jay Hair Tools 

Personalized items are a Cancer’s forte. Mix self-care and personalization, and you have the perfect gift. The Emi Jay Custom Paddle Brush has different colors and gems to choose from, allowing you to find the brush that suits your crab perfectly. They also have the Custom Big Effing Clip, which has a bigger range of designs. There are also non-personalized items on their site that are just as cute for the moon-ruled individual. 

Sol de Janeiro Set 

A Cancer’s way of relaxing will always be self-care. A hot shower or bath will always calm them down from life’s chaos, therefore it is important to provide them with items that will add to their time cut out for relaxation. Sol de Janeiro sets are perfect for birthdays, as they include a body wash, lotion, and body mist. The Beija Flor Jet Set has hints of musk and vanilla, but also pink dragonfruit and lychee essence, giving it a more tropical vibe. While I love this gift for everyone, I know a Cancer would love it for sure. 

Journal 

It is widely known that Cancers are emotional individuals. They are ruled by the moon, therefore their emotions change quickly and they feel everything very deeply. It is hard for them to not take things personally as they are sensitive people with big hearts. To help them guide their emotions, a journal would be an amazing gift, and it also adds to their love for self-care. I love the Wolf and Badger Five Minute Journal as there are guided exercises that only take five minutes out of your day, allowing a Cancer to settle down and do a little self-check-in. 

Pajamas 

Cancers would live in their pajamas if they could. Soft and comfortable clothing is essential to a Cancer’s lifestyle, so a snug pajama set would be a Cancer’s favorite birthday gift. While Djerf Avenue has an amazing selection of bedding, they also have delightful options for loungewear. Ranging from soft designs of berries, bows, and florals to different pastel colors, every set is perfectly fit for a Cancer’s relaxing day at home or a cozy night in. 

Jellycat

Adding to the cozy vibe, Cancers are also the biggest cuddlers. Once you get them to come out of their shell, they are very loving and love to be snuggled up on the couch. If you can’t give them a warm hug on their birthday, send a Jellycat their way. There are so many different plushies to choose from on their website, ranging from food to cute animals. Jellycats are perfect for a Cancer to cuddle with on those rainy nights, accompanied by a nice warm beverage.